Know When To Commence Sex / Love Making After Having A Baby

After having a baby, sex seems like a fond but in a distance memory. A woman feels as if she will never have sex again.

She feels exhausted and overwhelmed in the first six to seven weeks after delivery especially when she had tears and stitches or having delivered through a surgical cut between the vagina and the anus to enlarge her vaginal opening (episiotomy).

If this is a problem of any woman, you need not to worry; the only thing to do is to take your time, give yourself a break, and do not rush into it until you are ready.

On average, some couples resume intercourse (sex) six to seven weeks after having a baby. Most women who had cesarean sections had a better chance of having intercourse sooner than those who gave birth through the vagina.

One way to encourage your partner to show affection with you is to augment or reinforce the behaviors or characters you like.

Things like; I’ve realize you love me whenever we hold hands and kiss while we're watching television even though I'm not ready for sex. Or I love it when you stroke my hair.

You may even ask for nonsexual massages or foot rubs. Your partner should know that you appreciate his touch outside lovemaking, and that a kiss on the back of your neck while you're tending your baby sends excitement and shivers (the good kind) down your spine.
When the couple thinks the time is right, they should go for it, but should take it slow and easy; also it keeps the sense of humor. To avoid been rushed through lovemaking, the best time is after your baby is well fed and she's likely to sleep for at least an hour. Using a lubricant (usually found near the condoms helps also to reduce any discomfort that might be felt from the dryness of the vagina.

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